3. Don't look for a relationship until you know who you are.
Yesterday, I was thinking about my past. Relationships, that is. I was thinking about what went wrong in the past two and what's going right in this one. After examining the parts, I saw that in the first two relationships of my life, I changed too much. I allowed this other human being to come in and basically be my mold, I was just some pliable pink, glittery ball of moon-sand. (I choose Moon Sand, because, that stuff doesn't harden or dry out, because today, I am still somewhat pliable.) I crammed my elastic goodness right into this set design that was put out for me, and that was that. I was happy at first, but it never stayed that way. I soon realized that I wasn't myself. I needed to get out. So, I did. Recently, I've figured out who I am, for the most part, and I've decided that the essence of my personality should not, and will not change. I need to find someone who compliments them, not someone who squelches them and tries to jam-pack me into another freaking mold.
-Before you go on figuring out who to look for, make sure that you know what people are looking at when they look at you. If you don't know what you are, how can you expect people to look for you?
